Adulting in my thirties.

Being in my thirties made me realise “Wow this is adulting and I am getting old” Sometimes I do feel like I have my life together and other days I don’t which is the normal part of adulting.

In some cases, my mental health sometimes hits a down low with writing, posting, and dating including some family life. I tried to start therapy again but it is costly and sometimes I am the type to deal with my issues myself and not talk about them given the fact it is a healthy way to let all those emotions and stress out.

A lot of people think when you hit your thirties you might have your shit together, but that cannot be further from the truth, life is a rollercoaster and it isn’t about getting it right, it is about navigating your way through it, as you can see I am in my early 30’s and I am still studying photography at tafe, working on the weekends, trying to keep up with my social life and dating.

Life moves so damn fast as well, like guys, it's one more week until January ends and I turn 32 in one month and nine days! It is so crazy how time flies, but navigating it all is a part of life and I am just trying not to freak out and hold that head up high and be confident in the decisions I make from here on out. Even in saying that most of the goals I wanted to do this month haven’t been able to do them, like I said life gets in the way and always will throw your plans in a curveball.

But that doesn’t mean I won’t do them! I just gotta improvise and do it in February instead, but right now the current goal I am completing is learning Japanese and I am determined to see this through and not fail on any of my goals this year.

On the dating front, I guess I am just going to take it a day at a time not seek for anything and timing would be everything in the end. The right person will always come and stay through our worsts and faults.

But in exciting news! My aunt and her husband who were living in Vietnam for the holidays for three months landed on Monday and it was good to see them while waiting for the other family members to arrive as well. Honestly family is everything even when yes they can drive you crazy but we wouldn’t be here if we didn’t have the family we have now.

That’s it for today folks, thank you for clicking on this post. I hope it was worth a read and see you around next time!

Byes!